Archive for February, 2009

Glad game #6: Trick or treat

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

I have a lot to say about a lot of stuff. Much of it is much more meaningful than what usually shows up on this blog. Easygoing posts are much easier to make – they require less thought and less humility. But hey, thinking and humility are two things I’m striving for so once I get a grip on what I’m trying to say, I’ll post it and hopefully it’ll be a blessing.

But in the meantime, here’s a few more trivial tidbits of stuff that makes me happy from last year.

See — I never got to trick or treat on Halloween when I was a kid. I’ve done the dress up thing and yeah, that’s all well and good. But last year I felt an instinctive and intrinsic need to experience the practice of trick or treating. As always, my friend Chuck was there to support and share the journey of discovery with me.

Thankfully, we live with a number of families who around 8:00 at night can be counted upon to be in their rooms putting their loving children to sleep. We came to see them as our prime targets. In order to make sure that my first trick or treating experience was satisfying, we sent around this email to prepare the hearts of our Home members.

Jules and I, as you know, did not have a traditional childhood. We never got to celebrate Halloween the way God intended it to be celebrated.

All that to say, we’ll be shadowing your doorway on the night of October 31’st, in full costume, baskets in hand, waiting….nay…yearning for that joyful moment when all our childhood dreams will come true.

And if not.

We’ll toilet paper your doorway.

Much love,
Chuck and Jules

The night arrived and we commenced. We tried to project ourselves back into our childhoods and costumed as we felt we would have dressed at around age eight – a ballerina and princess, respectively.

The first door we knocked on was in and of itself, a reward. Just look at the happy faces. We also scored some awesome sugarless popsicles from these guys.

The next door was slightly less rewarding in that Doehler felt that sunflower seeds was all he could spare.

These guys were fully satisfactory. We scored real, unhealthy candy.

I’m not sure if there was full understanding of what we were trying to do by the child at this door. But she was a good sport and was, in the end, convinced to give us candy.

Here is where we encountered a challenge. But it was a challenge we quickly rose to. A certain someone who shall remain nameless for the shame that still abides with him did not come to the door. After repeated knockings he stuck his head out and told us in so many words to scamper off. We responded like so:

As you can see, it was a rewarding teamwork effort that left us with mixed emotions. And here are the cumulative fruits of our labors.

All in all, I felt it was a healthy sampling of what it’s like to trick or treat and my character is now that much more rounded out for having experienced it. I would definitely recommend it to anyone who hasn’t tried it yet.

Glad game #5: Got over salt and gum

Monday, February 23rd, 2009

It’s a small thing, but I’m thankful for it. Through an act of will and the grace of God I determined last year that I would not salt every single bite of food multiple times. It was getting so bad that I was starting to put salt on my toast. I salted my pancakes once and that’s when I decided that enough was enough. I now give my friend the salt shaker one or two (fine, four or five) quick shakes at the beginning of mealtime (the happy time) and then walk away. It hasn’t come right out and thanked me, but I feel like my blood pressure is grateful for this change.

Same goes for gum. I was going through a pack a day and it was draining my funds at a slow but unpleasant rate. I stopped. I don’t really chew gum now. It’s a blessing.

By this time next year I hope to be free of sugar in my coffee, and my eventual ten year plan is to be free of caffeine altogether. I read somewhere that’s it’s bad for you, but it will probably take at least ten years for this head knowledge to morph into an actual conviction.

Glad game #4: Marky’s tattoo

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009

That Marky chose me among women to design what will now be a part of him until he leaves this earthly life and his earthly shell, I’m very thankful for that. It’s something I have done that will not pass away, at least hopefully not for a very long time. Sniff…..now I miss him. Like the deserts miss the rain.

Attention busy people, I need more Activated articles

Wednesday, February 18th, 2009

Remember how last year you wrote Activated articles for me? That was fun. I got some great articles (thanks, friends) and I think three of them are coming out in the May Activated mag. Let’s do it again. Here’s the topic.

Getting Things Done

• Teamworking
• Encouraging others
• Getting rid of clutter
• Not giving up
• Bringing the Lord into our planning
• Those who depend on the Lord will succeed

I very, very, very much appreciate whatever you’re able to send me during these busy times. The deadline is March 25th and you can send your articles to jkvern@yahoo.com

To my littlest brother and sister….

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

You both had to be Aquarian’s and despite this fact I love you. :)
Happy Birthday to Rachie Pooh and Nicky Bear! You’re both growing up so fast and it’s freaky. Why? Because it makes me feel old. I love you both so much and wish I could be there with you to make sure you celebrate your birthdays properly. Though I have full faith and Jules will take care of it. I love you tons and miss you heaps.

Look at how little and cute you used to be.

Sign up for e-spresso

Friday, February 13th, 2009

The one visible web page is aesthetically pleasing, which has to be a good sign. Apparently through e-spresso we will learn how to become more professional. Plus, this proves what’s I’ve known in my heart all along; Family administration clearly endorses coffee. Only good can come of this. Go sign up.

To my (3 or 4) RSS subscribers

Thursday, February 12th, 2009

Grant replied to his interview. Check it.