Happy Birthday to My Wanis of Love

November 8th, 2009

Jules, you are 22 today! I love you so every much and miss you too. I know this next year will be kickass and full of work :D Praying for you and don’t ever stop being your stoic/snazzy self. I love you!!

Rach, do me a favor since I’m not there to do this myself. Go sit on Jules so that she’s fully pinned down and give her a big slobbery kiss. Thanks buddy!

Take that Satan! (He tried to burn down our house, twice in one day.)

September 22nd, 2009

[09:47:31 PM] Janet: pslk pray for us there is a huge fire raging out back…we need all the prayer u can muster
[09:47:36 PM] Janet: it’s all hands on deck here
[09:48:12 PM] Steph: again?
[09:48:21 PM] Janet: yes
[09:48:25 PM] Janet: it’s humongous
[09:48:37 PM] Janet: we are working on getting our belongings together
[09:48:40 PM] Steph: yikes, is it the same fire that just never went out or it’s a new one?
[09:49:36 PM] Janet: new one
[09:49:45 PM] Steph: ok, praying right now
[09:51:58 PM] Steph: Should we send Christo and Dan over to help?
[09:53:33 PM] Janet: i think it may be okay for now
[09:53:38 PM] Janet: i can let u know,
[09:53:42 PM] Janet: miraculously it’s raining
[09:53:46 PM] Janet: we prayed for rain
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[09:51:23 PM] Dora: Hey, Christo wants to know if you think he and Dan should go over to help as wll
[09:51:46 PM] Steph: lemme ask and see.
[09:53:00 PM] Dora: please let us know if you want him to go
[09:53:09 PM] Steph: ok
[09:55:55 PM] Steph: It’s raining there now so PTL
[09:55:57 PM] Steph: the fire is going out
[09:56:07 PM] Dora: wonderful!
[09:56:13 PM] Steph: Janet said they should be ok now
[09:56:13 PM] Dora: we were just praying for rain!
[09:56:18 PM] Steph: yes me 2
[09:56:19 PM] Steph: so cool
[09:56:23 PM] Steph: TYJ
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[10:16:40 PM] Jan: I just heard from Janet that they are about to lose their house to the fire, and then she went offline. What’s happening?
[10:24:17 PM] Steph: Miracle, it started raining
[10:24:22 PM] Steph: everything is ok now
[10:25:16 PM] Jan: cool. we prayed about 15 minutes ago for them. so glad to hear what the Lord has done.

Off to college

September 2nd, 2009

There’s a million different ways to break the news to my friend the Internet that life has taken a shift and that I’m changing directions and going to college. I’m going to give it the short treatment today but take comfort that there is a long version of this.

What: Two years of MiraCosta community college and then transferring to public university, most likely of the CSU variety. Choosing the community college route so as to save at least one arm and one leg on tuition costs. I have a direction I’m heading on a major, but not announcing it just yet in case I change my mind on this journey of growth and discovery.

When: Enrolling in January 2010 for spring semester.

With whom: Friends and comrades Chuck, Boo and Stephy Paone. I am enrolling with them. We’re enrolling in unity.

How (will it work?): Like magic :) Actually, more likely with huge amounts of prayer, lots of hard work, lots of coffee, and lots of lentils (they say the college student of our day lives on ramen but not me, no siree. Lentils, not ramen, will be my forever friend on this journey.)

More specifically, since we dig Activated Ministries and it digs us back, we’re going to keep working there part-time to further the cause of Christ and put lentils on the table while we studiously study. As far as lodging goes, we will lodge ourselves in an apartment, living together in harmony just like the early church.

Why college?: To gain the skills, knowledge, exposure and experience needed to help me serve God and fellow man with greater effectiveness.

That’s the very, very short version. The long version involves epiphanies, hours of dialog, soul-searching, excitement, moments of deep existential angst, fear, faith, God’s promises, waiting, writing, proposing, researching, Craigslist-prowling, calculating, re-figuring, researching, more researching, and hearty amounts of Uncle Dan’s Algebra review.

Blogging will continue – although at this point it’s more correct to say that blogging will start again. I plan to keep blogging until I find my blogging stride. I haven’t found my blogging stride yet and it may take years, but by golly I’ll keep blogging until I do.

Book Review: Why Should Anyone Believe Anything At All?

August 28th, 2009

Yo! I’m back with a commitment for the 400th time to post more regularly. I’m trying something new here. I’m going to review a book. There’s a long-pondered reason for this and it’s chiefly because I’m a big fan of communication and have come to realize lately just how bad I am at it. I tried to recommend The Shack to someone and in the middle of my little treatise they asked if it was a Stephen King novel. I’m serious. It’s that bad.

So, using the principle of if you’re not failing frequently, it means you’re not trying enough new things, I’m hoping to vigorously hone my art of persuasive communication through what I anticipate will be plentiful and regular failures in the attempt. It’s a two-pronged effort involving both written and spoken attempts at persuasion. So, if I come up to you at some point and start trying to persuade you of something – anything – now you know why. It’s practice. Feel free to offer robust differing opinions. Remember that your part is to challenge me and help me grow.

So here goes with the written bit. I’m starting with a book that Mike lent me awhile back.

Why Should Anyone Believe Anything At All?

Why Should Anyone Believe Anything At All? by Christian apologist James Sire gives two main arguments; 1) truth is the only good reason for belief, and 2) there are good reasons to believe that Christianity is true. The first half of the book makes the argument for truth as the only proper justification for belief and the second half offers four arguments for Christianity as a belief system.

The book was born from a lecture by the same name that Sire used to give on college campuses. Before his lecture, he would set up surveys where college students were asked to respond to one question “why should anyone believe anything at all?” In his years of asking this question, all answers fell under one of the four categories.

Sociological reasons: My society, culture, parents etc. hold X belief.

Psychological reasons: X belief makes me feel good. X gives me peace etc.

Religious reasons: I read about it in a book (Bible, Qur’an, etc.) My religious authority told me (priest, rabbi, guru). Miracles prove the truth of X belief. I had a religious experience.

Philosophical reasons:
X is true. X is reasonable, logical, and internally consistent. X best accounts for all the available evidence. X belief gives the best explanation of all the tough issues of life.

He devotes a chapter to each of the above reasons, examining the reasons and then asking the question each time “is that a good reason to hold a belief?” He works incrementally toward the proposition the only good reason for a belief is truth and gives a number of criteria for recognizing truth in a claim. These criteria would be the answers given under philosophical reasons.

Building on this premise, he argues in second half of the book that there are good reasons to believe that Christianity is true. Sire gives four arguments for Christianity; the historical reliability of the Gospels, Jesus’ resurrection, the moral argument, and the experience of Christians discovering God – although about this last reason he’s careful to note that religious or personal experience should not be considered a stand-alone reason for the Christian faith but must be incorporated into a larger context of evidence.

It’s not a comprehensive overview of Christian apologetics – there’s no argument from design or anything about cosmology or science. The main apologetic he offers is the person of Jesus; his character, his teachings and resurrection. I found the first half of the book to be much more engaging than the second, not because his arguments for Christianity are weak but because the material in the second half is covered by nearly every basic Christian apologetic book you’ll pick up.

The second half is a good condensed review of much of what’s in Case for Christ. The arguments for the reliability of the Gospels and the resurrection are boiled down to their bare bones, which is helpful as either introduction to those arguments or just as review. He also devotes a chapter to dealing with the problem of evil and uses the nature of evil and free will defense as the intellectual answer, coupled with his personal experience with deep suffering to offer a solution for what is probably the toughest objection that Christianity has to answer.

I like James Sire. He’s down to earth and has a humorous, grandfatherly way of presenting solid arguments. I’ve read three and a half of his books so far and I rank this one as one of his easier reads. The first half of the book on its own is worth reading as he makes an engaging case for examining the truthfulness of a belief and not relying on all the other “reasons” that are commonly offered. It’s a roundabout treatment on thinking critically and differentiating between a true reason for a belief versus a cause or a feeling.

He uses real answers from college students to illustrate his points and the book is peppered with other stories from Shirley MaClaine to Chuck Colson to Sire’s own experiences – keeping the book moving at an easily readable pace. My favorite part of all of Sire’s books is his bibliographies; he gives these tasty one-paragraph reviews of other apologetic books and subsequently the cup of my Amazon wish list runneth over.

You can watch or listen to the man himself give the lecture at the Veritas Forum.

You have a choice

July 19th, 2009

(Insert guilty acknowledgment that I haven’t posted for awhile. That being done…)

Friends, you have a choice over these next five days. I need good-quality Activated articles. The Activated editors need good quality Activated articles. The world needs good quality Activated articles.

What can you do about this? You have a choice. Over the next five days you will have approximately 96 waking hours. Surely one or two can of those hours be spent in putting your godly Christian thoughts down on paper for the benefit of countless thousands who will read it in an Activated magazine.

Sure, you could instead spend that hour folding laundry, coloring flashcards, researching online, plucking your eyebrows or taking Facebook quizzes.

But why not invest that hour in something that will benefit thousands of other other people, not to mention your friend Jules and her eager editors? The laundry will eventually get folded, the flashcards will get colored, you will eventually decide on what purchase to make after researching online, you know that you will eventually pluck your eyebrows and that Facebook quiz will always be there tomorrow. These things will eventually happen and the delay of a day will not, I think, set you back in any way that is significant.

But this opportunity will pass. From my heart of hearts I implore you to consider the implications of how you choose to spend that extra hour or two. Invest it in the future edification of the world.

Deadline is July 25th, the topic is loneliness and depression/discouragement, and you can send your contributions to jkvern@yahoo.com

Do this and prosper.

It’s time!

June 27th, 2009

Yup, it’s that time when this familiar request shows up on my blog. That time when I extol the virtues of the Activated magazine and implore you to contribute by putting your thoughts down on Word documents and then emailing them to me.

I need Activated articles, friends. Every time I’ve made my request known on I get good quality articles that (whaddya know?) make it into print and benefit countless lost and lonely on all corners of the earth.

It’s very simple. The topic is loneliness and depression/discouragement. I’m fairly confident that the idea is to express how to overcome or travail victoriously through loneliness and depression/discouragement.

So on this topic, I need a nice Activated-ish length article emailed to jkvern@yahoo.com by the 25th of July.

I appreciate your contributions and so does the Activated editor. New material is golden. You have the power to make this happen and I depend on you. Thank you in advance.

Interview of the Month: Bethy, World Services

June 19th, 2009

I feel that this is a watershed moment in my young life. You see, I project that in ten – nah, make it five years – World Services will be open to the public. We’ll (gasp!) know where they live and that won’t be all. Dream the impossible dream with me and picture this:

Facebook

Karen Zerby is excited about the new GN I just finished. ILY Family! xoxoxo
(Steven Kelly likes this)

Twitter

KingPeter @JuanRS my flight lands in Rio in 2 min. r u sure sum1’s coming 2 pick me up? GBY!

Yup, that’s the bright and shiny future I envision. It’s gonna be awesome.

At that point it’ll be like “so you’re going to WS? Sweet, I hear Miami has some awesome national parks” (I don’t know why I chose Miami, it just came to me) and I’ll have to figure out what to do with all the time I devote to speculating where those WS’ites might live.

And when WS people come to visit for meetings and stuff, what will there be left to tease them about? And what will they have to be all cryptic and mysterious about? There won’t be any point to rifling through their bags looking for their passport to check the stamps, or immediately grabbing their wrist when they first walk in the door in the hopes that they didn’t change the time on their watch yet, or offering them beer after beer in the hopes of…..dang, this actually getting to be kind of a depressing prediction. It’s like all the fun will be gone. Oh well. Change isn’t always easy, is it?

Back on topic.

Until that day arrives, savor this moment with me. My cousin Bethy, daughter of co-administrative head of the oft-publicized NRM The Family International, (hah, this is such fun) longtime member of World Services and all around cool cat, has agreed to let me probe her mind and share these probings with you. I’m excited!

You’ll notice that this interview wasn’t posted in typical Interview of the Month format. Bethy and I cheated just a little bit and did the interview beforehand and now I’m posting it all in one shot. The reason is that naturally, this interview had to get checked over by other WS bunny rabbits to make sure that Bethy didn’t give away vital information as to her whereabouts. It’s a tricky process and a very slippery slope. See, if she slips and says something like “and sometimes when the weather is nice I like to go out for a walk” this would clearly imply that the weather is at least sometimes nice where she lives, which considerably narrows the field of where WS could be located. With that kind of information, it would just be a matter of time before someone connects the dots.

Well, I think I’ve said all the foolish preliminary things that I felt I needed to say to preface this interview.

Enjoy!

Oh, one more thing. At the bottom of this post there are PHOTOS of real live WS people. I should add here that to my overly inquisitive eye, they’re all looking pretty tan. What can we learn from this?

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